The concept of chores should start from an early age. As they grow older, their ability to contribute to the family nucleus by completing chores also increases. So today we will be talking all about assigning age-appropriate chores for 8-10 year olds, rewards and allowances, chores vs life skills, chore charts and more.
Here is an outline of what you will find in this article:
- Why assign chores to 8-10 year olds?
- Chores vs Life Skills
- Should you offer an allowance or rewards for chores?
- Chore Chart Ideas
- Tips and Considerations
- Full list of daily chores for 8-10 year olds
- Weekly chores for 8-10 year olds
- Allowances for optional chores
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Why assign chores to 8-10 year olds?
As previously mentioned, implementing a chore routine should start early on (ages 2-3).
Research suggest that children who have been given chores from an early age exhibit some of the following characteristics:
- higher self-esteem
- more responsible
- tend to be better equipped to deal with frustration, adversity, and delayed gratification
In turn, these skills can lead to greater success in school, work, and relationships.
By ages 8 to 10 kids are more capable of not only completing their daily chores, but also understanding why they do them.
With that said, before assigning chores to your 8, 9, or 10 year old, it is important to understand the difference between chores and life skills.
Chores vs Life Skills
Often times, you find articles and other resources which include “life skills” as part of your child’s chore list.
However, 8-10 years olds should have already learned “life skills” and the role they play in their everyday routine.
What do I mean by life skills? Basic life necessities to care for themselves, their bodies, and their belongings.
- Brush their teeth
- Eat Vegetables
- Get dressed
- Make themselves snacks
- Take dirty clothes to the laundry room after they take a shower
Unlike younger kids whose chore charts might include “brush my teeth” and “get dressed” as part of their daily routine, 8-10 year olds should be expected to perform these tasks without being written on paper.
Although some 8-10 year olds might need daily reinforcement to get this tasks done, they aren’t necessarily “chores”.
Chore Allowances for 8-10 years olds
Kids love money! Who doesn’t, right? Especially 8 to 10 year olds.
This age group is starting to realize that money can get them things they like. They are starting to love the idea of having their “own money” to buy “whatever they want”.
Although introducing them to the concept of money management and value at a young age is important, it is just as crucial to make sure we are doing it correctly.
It is not recommended that children receive monetary compensation to do all household chores.
Doing chores is part of their contribution for being part of the family. Also, doing chores teaches them how to care for themselves and be responsible for their surrounding and belongings. Therefore, chores should not be conditional to monetary compensation, because that can create a sense of confusion and set false expectations down the road.
No child should feel like they should get paid to make their bed in the morning. Once they are off to collage, no one will pay them to wash their own laundry or wash their own dishes.
With that said, you can designate special “optional” tasks that they can do for money, once their daily chores are completed.
Optional tasks should be a bit more complex in nature and not interfere with their expected daily chores.
Note: Ideas for optional tasks for 8-10 year olds, next.
Chore Chart for 8-9 Year Olds
So, where can we keep track of 8 through 10 year old daily and weekly chores?
In a chore chart of course!
If you have one child, you can print out a weekly calendar page and write a list of daily and weekly chores there. Then, discuss the chores in the list with your child taking into account some of the tips and considerations listed below.
If you have more than one child or you would like a chore chart you can use over and over, consider one of these two great chore chart and activity calendars.
This Dry Erase whiteboard Chore Chart is perfectly simple. It is magnetic and comes with 5 magnetic markers and 1 magnetic eraser. Use the different colored markers to differentiate from daily, weekly, and paid chores.
I also love this Kids Magnetic Responsibility Chart. It comes in a 2-pack or 3-pack which makes it a great chore chart option for multiple kids.
Tip and considerations when assigning chores for 8-10 year olds
Before you assign your child with daily and weekly chores, here are some things to take into consideration:
- Make a chore chart
- Remain consistent! Inconsistency creates confusion and destroys momentum
- Set realistic expectations
- Assign chores that align with their physical and metal ability and development
- Show them how you would like every chore to be done before they do it themselves
- Take into consideration other responsibilities your child has on a weekly basis, such as homework, sports, etc.
- Set clear rules and expectation for the completion of the chores
- Teach then how doing chores can be fun (by making a chore challenge, or listening to music)
- Don’t micromanage
- Always offer positive feedback and positive reinforcement upon chore completion
Age-Appropriate List of Chores for 8-10 Year Olds
This list contains age-appropriate chores for 8-10 year olds. However, because every child is difference despite their age group make sure you assign chores from this list that fit your child’s physical and developmental ability.
All Things Laundry
By the age of 8, 9, and 10 most children are able to fold clothes and load them in washing machine.
You can teach your child any of the following laundry chores and make them part of their chore chart:
- Sort clothes by color
- Put clothes to wash
- Put clothes to dry
- Fold clothes
- Put clothes away (drawers and hangers)
Wash and Dry Dishes
Eight, nine, and ten year olds are at a great age to help out with washing and drying dishes.
Because most dishes and other kitchen essentials are made out of class, ensure your child is ready for this task.
That is why it is so important to walk them through each chore they are expected to complete and teach them how to do them correctly.
Fill and Empty Dishwasher
Much like washing dishes, filling and emptying the dishwasher is an easy and helpful task to assign you eight-year-old.
Other Kitchen Chores
- Bring in and put away groceries
- Make their own lunch
- Help set the table for dinner
- Clear out and wipe down dinning table after dinner
- Throw out garbage and put a new bag (ideally for 9-10 year olds)
All things cleaning
By the age of eight through ten, most children have gotten the hang of using cleaning items such as brooms and vacuums.
Here is a list is of cleaning chores for 8-10 year olds:
- Wipe Counter
Note: Make sure they are using natural and safe cleaning products.
Being responsible for their personal space is a vital aspect of teaching them how to respect themselves and their belongings.
Some of the daily and weekly bedroom chores for 8 to 10 year olds include:
- Making their bed
- Tidying room
- Pick up toys
- Put away shoes
- Sweep/vacuum bedroom floors
- Change bed sheets and pillowcases (weekly)
Eight through 10 year olds are capable of helping out with bathroom cleaning duties, especially if they have their own bathroom.
- Shine mirror
- Wipe their bathroom sink
- Take dirty clothes to laundry or hamper
- Clean their bathroom toilet (optional)
Again, ensure you are providing them with non-toxic and natural cleaning products.
Pet Care Chores
If you have pets in your family, involving your child in pet care as part of their chores is a great way to teach them responsibly and compassion.
Pet care related chores could include:
- Walking the dog
- Filling pet food bowls
- Refilling water bowls
- Brushing hair (dogs)
- Feeding the fish/fishes
- Water plants
- Bring mail in
- Sweep porch/deck/back patio
- Pull weeds (allowance)
- Rake leaves (weekly)
Weekly Chore Ideas for 8-10 Year Olds
Not all chores need to be done daily. Some can get done once a week.
Here are a few weekly chore ideas you can add to you 8-10 year old chore chart:
- Change bed sheets and pillowcases
- Change bathroom towels for a clean one
- Through out bathroom garbage and put a new bag
- Rake leaves
This Chore Chart Calendar has a designated space for daily and weekly chores.
Allowances for Optional Chores
The following chores are considered a bit more time consuming and physically and mentally demanding. For that reason, offering them for monetary compensation is a good idea. If allowances or rewards are not part of your chore plan, then you can include these in the “Weekly Chores”.
- Entertain and tutor younger siblings
- Pull weeds
- Rake leaves
- Help wash car
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Eight through ten year olds are smart, energetic, and willing. Take advantage of this beautiful age to teach them how to be responsible and grateful by appointing age-appropriate chores.
Remember to make it fun and set realistic expectations so that it can be a positive experience for you and them.
What do you think about assigning chores to 8-10 year olds?
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